20-12-2009, 01:24
I can definitely see where that would be a confusing situation! My advice would be to just try and stay friends--you've been through a lot, but so have your friends, and they're having to figure out what's changed and what hasn't. If you confessed an attraction for this man, he very likely wouldn't know how to react. He is probably still figuring things out. If he starts testing the waters a bit to see if you'd be attracted to him, then take a chance. But I don't think I would quite yet.