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Sweating under domes
April 19 2009 at 3:45 PM roakie (Login roakie)
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I know someone mentioned using a cut-up sanitary pad inside the domes to absorb moisture but it didn't work for me. My domes come off twice a night - once before bed after about 5 hours of wear, and then first thing in the morning as soon as I move my arms. So....twice each cycle I have to take them off, wipe them out and put them back on.
Anyone else have this problem and do you have a solution?
My daughter left some cotton make-up sponges at the house. I wonder whether I should try them?
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tr1gger
(Login tr1gger) Re: Sweating under domes April 19 2009, 4:44 PM
I wonder if your room is too hot, or if you're blanket is too thick? I'm sure you've already considered that. Possibly its where you live, it may just be humid. In that case, the only thing I can think of is air-con, but I'm sure you've thought of that already and tackled the heat issue as best you can. I get some condensation inside my domes, but nothing that causes them to slide around. That makes me think that lubricating rather than using the sticky on the domes wouldn't work, if they slide around so. I would think if you've got them suctioned on as hard as you could, it would prevent it, but clearly not. Well, we're coming into summer here, where it gets really hot and humid, so I hope someone comes up with something!
Roakie, I just realized you've been doing this for six months! Just thought I would share something I learned from the girls over on Noogle forum, many of whom hit a growth plateau after a certain time, and found the solution to be a short break, and then starting back up. Apparently this caused the growth to kick in again. Many, many frustrated girls found this worked for them. Just an idea, of course, none of us can really know how this works. I read somewhere also, that brava recommends a max cycle of 30 weeks, and then a break...something to do with the growth process. If you feel things are at a standstill, it might be something to consider. Even just a weeks break might help.
Hope you don't take this negatively! I'm rooting for you! I want you to get what you want. I definitely think from all my reading of many womens experiences using many systems, there are different ways to get there. I don't think a short break would set you back enormously, at any rate. I like the idea of looking at this as a long term process, but we need to be able to keep morale up, and not ultimately get annoyed and give up! I believe that many cycles are going to be in order for you, over the course of a couple of years. So maybe it would be ok to break it up a bit, and give yourself a bit of rest time at some point...
You know yourself though, and are the best one to decide what's right for you.
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roakie
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SENIOR MEMBER Re: Sweating under domes April 19 2009, 9:19 PM
My main problem is a fear of stopping and going back to how I was - perfectly flat with an indented breast on the left side due to a ribcage depression from a slight scoliosis. If I had an inch of projection I would be willing to stop, but before Brava I had not even a slight bump. Last year a young girl asked me if I was a boy!!! I also had a woman at church whisper to me, "Have you had breast cancer?" Yup, that is how flat I am. I am trying to achieve enough of a breast to project futher than the hightened ribcage on the right side, because otherwise, I have no breast and simply a bony projection along my sternum.
I think in terms of flatness, I am definitely the flattest woman on this board!
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Rox3
(no login) Re: Sweating under domes April 19 2009, 11:20 PM
Hi - not sure how to handle this since the domes have never fallen off. In the morning, I basically still have to pry them off slowly or I'll rip the skin. I get a little condensation inside but hardly anything, and I don't sweat. I don't sweat when I exercise either though. The make up pads sound good and I hope you can get some sleep without having to get up. Let us know what works for you and keep positive!!!
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tr1gger
(Login tr1gger) Re: Sweating under domes April 20 2009, 2:47 AM
I understand completely Roakie. I was thinking today after I'd written that message, that I hope it didn't just discourage you or come across as judgemental. I was truly just trying to think of every tip I've picked up scouring the boards of other womens experiences to put out there for you. You'll know whats right for you, but it can't hurt to be armed with as much info as possible.
Having put in as much time and energy as you have, I'm sure you don't want to stop until you've gotten something decent out of it. I feel that way already, and I'm only seven weeks in to the breast growing thing. I just thought I'd let you know of a couple of women I'd heard about who felt they'd plateaued, and after a short break, things seemed to pick up much better. There's no science behind it, so who can know? Some women on the NB forum had been forced to take a break due to work commitments or family holidays where they just couldn't get away to do it at all, and feared losing everything, and in some cases the swelling did subside leaving them feeling like they did have to start from scratch. However, I think when they started back up, it was like their bodies responded far better to the suction and had increased swelling. Another common thread I've noticed with people that have been slow responders, is they may grow a tiny amount on the first cycle, a bit more on the next, a bit more on the next and so on and so forth, until they're at a size they're ok with. But stopping certainly didn't mean that they couldn't start back up again, and have their bodies respond to the suction almost as if they'd trained it to know what to do, and it hadn't forgotten. Well, if they'd done at least 20 wks that is. I think before then, fears about anything being permanent are definitely real.
There are also people who have gone an entire year like you're doing, and slowly but surely grown. So it's not a bad idea either. Seeing as you're getting good swelling now, things are probably starting to move along. So, good luck with finding a solution to your slippery domes. Have you tried the product called 'It Stays'? You can get it from Hocks.com. It's an adhesive I heard some brava people were using when their domes started to lose their stickiness. I'm not sure if that's part of your problem, just thought I'd mention it. It's used in theatre for things like wigs, all sorts of things, and is apparently not irritating...
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roakie
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SENIOR MEMBER Re: Sweating under domes April 20 2009, 7:53 AM
Don't worry, tr1gger! I knew when I read your message that you were trying to be helpful. And I understand your point about a break completely. I think that if I weren't so totally boob-less I would do just that. I sure want a break, that's for sure. But I am now giving it all I've got. I am on natural hormone replacement, I made my first batch of chicken feet soup and rendered out the thick collagen and am eating a cup of the thick broth each day, and I am doing a very gentle but basic massage each evening (3 days so far) right before I shower and then put on the domes. I've also been taking Goat's Rue.
I know we are not supposed to do massage with brava, but I don't see how a gentle one can hurt. And though I can't find any research about chicken feet soup/collagen encouraging breast growth, it is a big thing among the Asian culture so there must be something to it.
I am in for the attack! Even if I do give Brava a break, at least I will have also started everything full force and one of these NBE methods might work!
By the way, I have the makeup pads in each dome tonight. They are still full of condensation but they haven't fallen off yet after five hours. I dont' see that the pads are absorbing anything.
Thanks for the tip on the sticky stuff. I might give it a try. We have a big costume store here and they might just have it.
This message has been edited by roakie on Apr 20, 2009 7:55 AM
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tr1gger
(Login tr1gger) Re: Sweating under domes April 20 2009, 3:43 PM
Oh good! My domes are full of condensation too, but being newer than yours are still staying on. So perhaps some extra sticky will help. I'm also assuming that you've either put an ace bandage, tight tube top or even a firm elastic 'waist trimmer' to secure them to your chest also? That's meant to help apparently...
BTW, I'm having struggles of my own right now. Blisters!!!! AAAARRRRRGHHHH! I think I went too hard/long, and the tegaderm around the nips didn't allow skin to breath/stretch, and gave me some nasty blisters. I've got no idea how to deal with them. I covered in little patches of rubbery scar bandaid things...Some popped underneath, and some got bigger! I'm going pretty easy right now, and hoping they heal. Also trying to prevent my husband for seeing the butchery I'm sporting right now. That'll surely win his thorough disaproval (if wearing these silly plastic domes hasn't already).
And on your flatness issue, I understand your dismay about your lack of breasts, but aside from the odd idiotic remark (and most of us have had those, I assure you. I certainly have), I'm sure there's much more about you that other people are paying attention to. It's funny that we really think other people are interested in the things we're worried about ourselves. I've learned time and time again, that people are far too interested in themselves to care too much about me or my perceived inadequacies. So don't worry what anyone else thinks, it's what you feel about yourself and your body that makes you either a pleasant or not so nice person to be around. I fully support you in your quest to feel better about yourself, but stuff the others! I'm sure they're not perfect either, and I bet they spend more time worrying about their own wrinkles/bad hair/ugly legs/fat arse, etc etc, than they do thinking about your breasts!! This is for you! Self improvement, such as exercise, skin/hair care, dressing well, are not so different to 'breast care', and it shouldn't be less enjoyable or rewarding. Take your time, there's years to grow breasts, assuming your health is in order! If you're overweight and starting an exercise program you can't expect to be slim immediately either. It's always best to take your time so that you aren't torturing yourself and are able to have the endurance and stamina to continue as long as it takes.
That little lecture was to remind myself also, by the way!!
April 19 2009 at 3:45 PM roakie (Login roakie)
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I know someone mentioned using a cut-up sanitary pad inside the domes to absorb moisture but it didn't work for me. My domes come off twice a night - once before bed after about 5 hours of wear, and then first thing in the morning as soon as I move my arms. So....twice each cycle I have to take them off, wipe them out and put them back on.
Anyone else have this problem and do you have a solution?
My daughter left some cotton make-up sponges at the house. I wonder whether I should try them?
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tr1gger
(Login tr1gger) Re: Sweating under domes April 19 2009, 4:44 PM
I wonder if your room is too hot, or if you're blanket is too thick? I'm sure you've already considered that. Possibly its where you live, it may just be humid. In that case, the only thing I can think of is air-con, but I'm sure you've thought of that already and tackled the heat issue as best you can. I get some condensation inside my domes, but nothing that causes them to slide around. That makes me think that lubricating rather than using the sticky on the domes wouldn't work, if they slide around so. I would think if you've got them suctioned on as hard as you could, it would prevent it, but clearly not. Well, we're coming into summer here, where it gets really hot and humid, so I hope someone comes up with something!
Roakie, I just realized you've been doing this for six months! Just thought I would share something I learned from the girls over on Noogle forum, many of whom hit a growth plateau after a certain time, and found the solution to be a short break, and then starting back up. Apparently this caused the growth to kick in again. Many, many frustrated girls found this worked for them. Just an idea, of course, none of us can really know how this works. I read somewhere also, that brava recommends a max cycle of 30 weeks, and then a break...something to do with the growth process. If you feel things are at a standstill, it might be something to consider. Even just a weeks break might help.
Hope you don't take this negatively! I'm rooting for you! I want you to get what you want. I definitely think from all my reading of many womens experiences using many systems, there are different ways to get there. I don't think a short break would set you back enormously, at any rate. I like the idea of looking at this as a long term process, but we need to be able to keep morale up, and not ultimately get annoyed and give up! I believe that many cycles are going to be in order for you, over the course of a couple of years. So maybe it would be ok to break it up a bit, and give yourself a bit of rest time at some point...
You know yourself though, and are the best one to decide what's right for you.
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roakie
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SENIOR MEMBER Re: Sweating under domes April 19 2009, 9:19 PM
My main problem is a fear of stopping and going back to how I was - perfectly flat with an indented breast on the left side due to a ribcage depression from a slight scoliosis. If I had an inch of projection I would be willing to stop, but before Brava I had not even a slight bump. Last year a young girl asked me if I was a boy!!! I also had a woman at church whisper to me, "Have you had breast cancer?" Yup, that is how flat I am. I am trying to achieve enough of a breast to project futher than the hightened ribcage on the right side, because otherwise, I have no breast and simply a bony projection along my sternum.
I think in terms of flatness, I am definitely the flattest woman on this board!
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Rox3
(no login) Re: Sweating under domes April 19 2009, 11:20 PM
Hi - not sure how to handle this since the domes have never fallen off. In the morning, I basically still have to pry them off slowly or I'll rip the skin. I get a little condensation inside but hardly anything, and I don't sweat. I don't sweat when I exercise either though. The make up pads sound good and I hope you can get some sleep without having to get up. Let us know what works for you and keep positive!!!
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tr1gger
(Login tr1gger) Re: Sweating under domes April 20 2009, 2:47 AM
I understand completely Roakie. I was thinking today after I'd written that message, that I hope it didn't just discourage you or come across as judgemental. I was truly just trying to think of every tip I've picked up scouring the boards of other womens experiences to put out there for you. You'll know whats right for you, but it can't hurt to be armed with as much info as possible.
Having put in as much time and energy as you have, I'm sure you don't want to stop until you've gotten something decent out of it. I feel that way already, and I'm only seven weeks in to the breast growing thing. I just thought I'd let you know of a couple of women I'd heard about who felt they'd plateaued, and after a short break, things seemed to pick up much better. There's no science behind it, so who can know? Some women on the NB forum had been forced to take a break due to work commitments or family holidays where they just couldn't get away to do it at all, and feared losing everything, and in some cases the swelling did subside leaving them feeling like they did have to start from scratch. However, I think when they started back up, it was like their bodies responded far better to the suction and had increased swelling. Another common thread I've noticed with people that have been slow responders, is they may grow a tiny amount on the first cycle, a bit more on the next, a bit more on the next and so on and so forth, until they're at a size they're ok with. But stopping certainly didn't mean that they couldn't start back up again, and have their bodies respond to the suction almost as if they'd trained it to know what to do, and it hadn't forgotten. Well, if they'd done at least 20 wks that is. I think before then, fears about anything being permanent are definitely real.
There are also people who have gone an entire year like you're doing, and slowly but surely grown. So it's not a bad idea either. Seeing as you're getting good swelling now, things are probably starting to move along. So, good luck with finding a solution to your slippery domes. Have you tried the product called 'It Stays'? You can get it from Hocks.com. It's an adhesive I heard some brava people were using when their domes started to lose their stickiness. I'm not sure if that's part of your problem, just thought I'd mention it. It's used in theatre for things like wigs, all sorts of things, and is apparently not irritating...
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roakie
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SENIOR MEMBER Re: Sweating under domes April 20 2009, 7:53 AM
Don't worry, tr1gger! I knew when I read your message that you were trying to be helpful. And I understand your point about a break completely. I think that if I weren't so totally boob-less I would do just that. I sure want a break, that's for sure. But I am now giving it all I've got. I am on natural hormone replacement, I made my first batch of chicken feet soup and rendered out the thick collagen and am eating a cup of the thick broth each day, and I am doing a very gentle but basic massage each evening (3 days so far) right before I shower and then put on the domes. I've also been taking Goat's Rue.
I know we are not supposed to do massage with brava, but I don't see how a gentle one can hurt. And though I can't find any research about chicken feet soup/collagen encouraging breast growth, it is a big thing among the Asian culture so there must be something to it.
I am in for the attack! Even if I do give Brava a break, at least I will have also started everything full force and one of these NBE methods might work!
By the way, I have the makeup pads in each dome tonight. They are still full of condensation but they haven't fallen off yet after five hours. I dont' see that the pads are absorbing anything.
Thanks for the tip on the sticky stuff. I might give it a try. We have a big costume store here and they might just have it.
This message has been edited by roakie on Apr 20, 2009 7:55 AM
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tr1gger
(Login tr1gger) Re: Sweating under domes April 20 2009, 3:43 PM
Oh good! My domes are full of condensation too, but being newer than yours are still staying on. So perhaps some extra sticky will help. I'm also assuming that you've either put an ace bandage, tight tube top or even a firm elastic 'waist trimmer' to secure them to your chest also? That's meant to help apparently...
BTW, I'm having struggles of my own right now. Blisters!!!! AAAARRRRRGHHHH! I think I went too hard/long, and the tegaderm around the nips didn't allow skin to breath/stretch, and gave me some nasty blisters. I've got no idea how to deal with them. I covered in little patches of rubbery scar bandaid things...Some popped underneath, and some got bigger! I'm going pretty easy right now, and hoping they heal. Also trying to prevent my husband for seeing the butchery I'm sporting right now. That'll surely win his thorough disaproval (if wearing these silly plastic domes hasn't already).
And on your flatness issue, I understand your dismay about your lack of breasts, but aside from the odd idiotic remark (and most of us have had those, I assure you. I certainly have), I'm sure there's much more about you that other people are paying attention to. It's funny that we really think other people are interested in the things we're worried about ourselves. I've learned time and time again, that people are far too interested in themselves to care too much about me or my perceived inadequacies. So don't worry what anyone else thinks, it's what you feel about yourself and your body that makes you either a pleasant or not so nice person to be around. I fully support you in your quest to feel better about yourself, but stuff the others! I'm sure they're not perfect either, and I bet they spend more time worrying about their own wrinkles/bad hair/ugly legs/fat arse, etc etc, than they do thinking about your breasts!! This is for you! Self improvement, such as exercise, skin/hair care, dressing well, are not so different to 'breast care', and it shouldn't be less enjoyable or rewarding. Take your time, there's years to grow breasts, assuming your health is in order! If you're overweight and starting an exercise program you can't expect to be slim immediately either. It's always best to take your time so that you aren't torturing yourself and are able to have the endurance and stamina to continue as long as it takes.
That little lecture was to remind myself also, by the way!!