17-02-2011, 20:13
I probably didn't mean it to come off as harsh as it may have, I reread what I said, and didn't exactly mean it as it may have came off. You have to realize that myself and other women on this forum have been tormented with small breasts most our lives and the majority of the torment being in our teens and it's mostly by boys. Yes some males become adults and mature past it, but others don't. I see even as an adult now there are males that still act like high school boys, it's very disappointing and sad because they are missing out on many things they could be enriched with a woman but because they are prejudging her for superficial reasons, they miss out.
I don't mind if you link this thread on your forum at all, sure others wouldn't mind either. My fear is that, well, often with penis enlargement and breast enlargement we sometimes get perverts running a muck, I haven't seen that much here and I'd like to keep it that way. But I have seen it on other NBE forums and such.
Now as far as your partner having big breasts and wanting a reduction, to be honest if I were that big I would want one also. I'm a short and petite woman and I'm now a 32D so in a 34 band size I'm a 34C. I wouldn't want to be bigger than a 34DD personally because not only would it be hard to find clothes but I can say now that since I use to be a 32AA (flat chested) and now have bigger breasts... now often people don't look at my face first and their eyes wonder while talking to me, even when I'm covered up! So it is a bit frustrating and I can only imagine being that big how it would be, that must be awful. Also I'm sure that type of size on a small frame must be hell on her back! Think about that. I once told a guy that preferred only 34DD and bigger on skinny petite girls once (he was a friend) to go out and buy a big bra, like say size 34F or so, he got a 36E bra cause of course his frame being bigger than a females, I then dared him to fill the bra with balloons filled with pudding and wear it for a week or so, only taking it off to shower to see what it felt like. You know after only 4 days his back was killing him? Imagine how she feels, he had a bigger frame!
I can somewhat understand why a male would be insecure about their penis size but not at the same time. The only time anyone would know is when you are intimate with someone. So it's a bit different than woman having smaller breasts, ours being smaller than what is ideal is a bit more noticeable. Often we look boyish if we don't have much, where as males with a smaller size there, don't look more girlish. And I've had smaller sized lovers and they pleased me just fine. I think both males and females are very hung up on size, bigger isn't always better in my opinion. And I'm not trying to sound like a hypocrite at all, I wanted to do NBE because I went to a 34C while pregnant and lost it all going down to a 32AA after breastfeeding. So it's not that I wasn't confident as a 32AA, I was, it was I wanted what I once had back. Now that I have it, yes I've gotten greedy and want a little more haha, that's human nature though. I can admit I'm a little superficial myself. I see a skinny girl with size 34D-34DD's and I want that for myself haha. Also with the new push up bras like from VS adding 2 cup sizes I have seen what I look like with that size and I like it
I know I can achieve it so why not?
The difference between breast and penis enlargement in my opinion is breasts are more vanity than penis size. A penis is essential to intimacy where as breasts aren't. One can still make love if they have big or small breasts. But really if your penis is too big, you may be limited to how many female partners can handle it. I know I couldn't handle too big, nor would I want to. I'm not saying males and females aren't as equally insecure about size of these organs, just saying one is more about appearance and one is not so much. And face it appearance is what attracts a potential mate.
Hope I cleared up better my way of thinking.
I don't mind if you link this thread on your forum at all, sure others wouldn't mind either. My fear is that, well, often with penis enlargement and breast enlargement we sometimes get perverts running a muck, I haven't seen that much here and I'd like to keep it that way. But I have seen it on other NBE forums and such.
Now as far as your partner having big breasts and wanting a reduction, to be honest if I were that big I would want one also. I'm a short and petite woman and I'm now a 32D so in a 34 band size I'm a 34C. I wouldn't want to be bigger than a 34DD personally because not only would it be hard to find clothes but I can say now that since I use to be a 32AA (flat chested) and now have bigger breasts... now often people don't look at my face first and their eyes wonder while talking to me, even when I'm covered up! So it is a bit frustrating and I can only imagine being that big how it would be, that must be awful. Also I'm sure that type of size on a small frame must be hell on her back! Think about that. I once told a guy that preferred only 34DD and bigger on skinny petite girls once (he was a friend) to go out and buy a big bra, like say size 34F or so, he got a 36E bra cause of course his frame being bigger than a females, I then dared him to fill the bra with balloons filled with pudding and wear it for a week or so, only taking it off to shower to see what it felt like. You know after only 4 days his back was killing him? Imagine how she feels, he had a bigger frame!
I can somewhat understand why a male would be insecure about their penis size but not at the same time. The only time anyone would know is when you are intimate with someone. So it's a bit different than woman having smaller breasts, ours being smaller than what is ideal is a bit more noticeable. Often we look boyish if we don't have much, where as males with a smaller size there, don't look more girlish. And I've had smaller sized lovers and they pleased me just fine. I think both males and females are very hung up on size, bigger isn't always better in my opinion. And I'm not trying to sound like a hypocrite at all, I wanted to do NBE because I went to a 34C while pregnant and lost it all going down to a 32AA after breastfeeding. So it's not that I wasn't confident as a 32AA, I was, it was I wanted what I once had back. Now that I have it, yes I've gotten greedy and want a little more haha, that's human nature though. I can admit I'm a little superficial myself. I see a skinny girl with size 34D-34DD's and I want that for myself haha. Also with the new push up bras like from VS adding 2 cup sizes I have seen what I look like with that size and I like it
I know I can achieve it so why not? The difference between breast and penis enlargement in my opinion is breasts are more vanity than penis size. A penis is essential to intimacy where as breasts aren't. One can still make love if they have big or small breasts. But really if your penis is too big, you may be limited to how many female partners can handle it. I know I couldn't handle too big, nor would I want to. I'm not saying males and females aren't as equally insecure about size of these organs, just saying one is more about appearance and one is not so much. And face it appearance is what attracts a potential mate.
Hope I cleared up better my way of thinking.