05-03-2011, 02:54
Hi there, my name's samantha and i am in desperate need of some help!!
This is very hard to explain and a little and could take some time, so please bare with me.
I am not here for myself as such, but i have major concern's for my son who is 19. I have recently discovered he has breast's and i am horrified and beside myself with worry! I don't know what to do or who to turn to over this. I have been looking at this forum and some other's for a while now trying to pluck up the courage to post and try and get some advice and now i really have to do something.
My worries are over his health and the reason why he has breast's, and i don't just mean small breast's, they are a good size and if i was to guess i would say a c cup. I know what you must be thinking and i know maybe i should have noticed earlier and i do blame myself, but the truth is i work very long hour's and my son is very reclusive and i let him have his space, i mean he is 19 and not a kid anymore.
Abit of background information! myself and my son and daughter live in a council house in leed's, i work long hours and i am single, my daughter is 17 and also work's, my son however has never kept a job down and has alway's seemed so distant. My son is very slim and had a late puberty which caused some bullying at school and all in all it was a bad time for him.
To come to the point and my cry for help. I found a photo on my son's laptop, the photo in question showed my son rubbing some type of oil into his chest, the problem was it was not just a chest, he has breast's, i was horrified to see this and i did not go looking for the picture, his laptop was on and i was grabbing his washing while i could as he had gone to the shop's, his door is alway's locked otherwise.
I was in a panic at the time, really did not have a clue what to do, my son is slim and alway's wear's baggy clothe's and tracksuit's, i just never noticed anything, i must be such a terrible mother! well that is how i feel right now. To get back on track i started to search his room. I came across something called premarin pill's and a gel called sandrani or something like that, i also found a bottle of tablet's called Puraria mirrifca and spirolactone. Sorry if my discription's are inaccurate. I also found a pump for breast's. Now imagine how i was feeling ? i was lost and confused and so ashamed of myself and worried sick for him.
My son was due back so i left the room as i found it and went downstair's and had a stiff drink and a fag and contemplated what to do!
I decided to find out what these pill's wher and not say anything till i knew what the hell i was talking about.
This was 3 day's ago and i still have not spoke to my son about it, i don't know how. My search has brought me to alot of forum's and web page's and this one seemed like a good place to try and get some help and advice. I have nothing against transexual's or crossdresser's and my son know's this so why has he not said anything to me ? and why are his breast's so big ? from what i have read he must have been doing these pill's for along time, and i mean year's for them to be so developed. How could he get these pill's, i did find an online store that sold hormone's over the net, but surely you cannot just buy from them ? it is called inhouse pharmacy i think.
I just do not know how to proceed with this ? i love my children very much and i will support what they do. But i just want answer's and to understand. How could i have not noticed anything ? please can someone help me ?
I have the picture i found of my son on a memory card, if needed i will post it so someone can tell me how long he has been using this stuff for, i am so scared he has damaged his health, and that the effect's are permanent. And why take a photo of his breast's, i don't understand.
Thank's for your time and understanding!
Sam
This is very hard to explain and a little and could take some time, so please bare with me.
I am not here for myself as such, but i have major concern's for my son who is 19. I have recently discovered he has breast's and i am horrified and beside myself with worry! I don't know what to do or who to turn to over this. I have been looking at this forum and some other's for a while now trying to pluck up the courage to post and try and get some advice and now i really have to do something.
My worries are over his health and the reason why he has breast's, and i don't just mean small breast's, they are a good size and if i was to guess i would say a c cup. I know what you must be thinking and i know maybe i should have noticed earlier and i do blame myself, but the truth is i work very long hour's and my son is very reclusive and i let him have his space, i mean he is 19 and not a kid anymore.
Abit of background information! myself and my son and daughter live in a council house in leed's, i work long hours and i am single, my daughter is 17 and also work's, my son however has never kept a job down and has alway's seemed so distant. My son is very slim and had a late puberty which caused some bullying at school and all in all it was a bad time for him.
To come to the point and my cry for help. I found a photo on my son's laptop, the photo in question showed my son rubbing some type of oil into his chest, the problem was it was not just a chest, he has breast's, i was horrified to see this and i did not go looking for the picture, his laptop was on and i was grabbing his washing while i could as he had gone to the shop's, his door is alway's locked otherwise.
I was in a panic at the time, really did not have a clue what to do, my son is slim and alway's wear's baggy clothe's and tracksuit's, i just never noticed anything, i must be such a terrible mother! well that is how i feel right now. To get back on track i started to search his room. I came across something called premarin pill's and a gel called sandrani or something like that, i also found a bottle of tablet's called Puraria mirrifca and spirolactone. Sorry if my discription's are inaccurate. I also found a pump for breast's. Now imagine how i was feeling ? i was lost and confused and so ashamed of myself and worried sick for him.
My son was due back so i left the room as i found it and went downstair's and had a stiff drink and a fag and contemplated what to do!
I decided to find out what these pill's wher and not say anything till i knew what the hell i was talking about.
This was 3 day's ago and i still have not spoke to my son about it, i don't know how. My search has brought me to alot of forum's and web page's and this one seemed like a good place to try and get some help and advice. I have nothing against transexual's or crossdresser's and my son know's this so why has he not said anything to me ? and why are his breast's so big ? from what i have read he must have been doing these pill's for along time, and i mean year's for them to be so developed. How could he get these pill's, i did find an online store that sold hormone's over the net, but surely you cannot just buy from them ? it is called inhouse pharmacy i think.
I just do not know how to proceed with this ? i love my children very much and i will support what they do. But i just want answer's and to understand. How could i have not noticed anything ? please can someone help me ?
I have the picture i found of my son on a memory card, if needed i will post it so someone can tell me how long he has been using this stuff for, i am so scared he has damaged his health, and that the effect's are permanent. And why take a photo of his breast's, i don't understand.
Thank's for your time and understanding!
Sam