07-03-2011, 07:40
HI Sam
You asked how could he do this and not be a transexual? What does he mean by a fascination?
He says that he can not explain why he did this and he is probably right. He can't the fascination that lead him to do this has probably been with him his entire life. I know it has with me.
Let me explain something about myself. All of my life I have been fascinated with the idea of having (growing) my own breasts. Whenever the idea was brought up on TV or books, or in real life. I instantly became completely attentive to the subject. If you are interested you can look in the introduction section of this site or Cheryls for my intro where I go into much more detail. http://cherylsbreasttalk.myfastforum.org/about331.html
At the moment I am content to be a male with breasts. I can't explain why I want them. Why having a set of breasts seems to fill some spot in my phyche. Most men that develop due to medications or other outside influences hide and are embarrassed by them. Yet I am working to grow them myself. The effort to develop them has helped me explore more of my own feelings. Will this one day lead to transsexualism? Possibly, it does happen sometime with full time crossdressers.
So do I consider myself to be a transexual. Not right now. Just like your son and many men out there. I have no desire to be a full time female.
(a blog from a male who has developed his breasts. http://male-breast-enlargement.org/blog/ )
Maybe later. Would I have done this when I was much younger if I knew then (Internet) what I know now. Yes. So what do I consider myself? I say just transgendered. It is a wide open category that covers a great deal of different types of being.
Here are a couple of sites you may want to look at.
http://www.lauras-playground.com/
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transgender
To me the main thing to me is to not get caught up on labels. He is your son who just happens to have breasts.
I hope some of this helps. I am afraid that I don't have the gift of writing that some here have. But I hope you find something useful.
Feel free to PM me if you have any questions.
You asked how could he do this and not be a transexual? What does he mean by a fascination?
He says that he can not explain why he did this and he is probably right. He can't the fascination that lead him to do this has probably been with him his entire life. I know it has with me.
Let me explain something about myself. All of my life I have been fascinated with the idea of having (growing) my own breasts. Whenever the idea was brought up on TV or books, or in real life. I instantly became completely attentive to the subject. If you are interested you can look in the introduction section of this site or Cheryls for my intro where I go into much more detail. http://cherylsbreasttalk.myfastforum.org/about331.html
At the moment I am content to be a male with breasts. I can't explain why I want them. Why having a set of breasts seems to fill some spot in my phyche. Most men that develop due to medications or other outside influences hide and are embarrassed by them. Yet I am working to grow them myself. The effort to develop them has helped me explore more of my own feelings. Will this one day lead to transsexualism? Possibly, it does happen sometime with full time crossdressers.
So do I consider myself to be a transexual. Not right now. Just like your son and many men out there. I have no desire to be a full time female.
(a blog from a male who has developed his breasts. http://male-breast-enlargement.org/blog/ )
Maybe later. Would I have done this when I was much younger if I knew then (Internet) what I know now. Yes. So what do I consider myself? I say just transgendered. It is a wide open category that covers a great deal of different types of being.
Here are a couple of sites you may want to look at.
http://www.lauras-playground.com/
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transgender
To me the main thing to me is to not get caught up on labels. He is your son who just happens to have breasts.
I hope some of this helps. I am afraid that I don't have the gift of writing that some here have. But I hope you find something useful.
Feel free to PM me if you have any questions.