[Cheryl1989]

Hi Sam, i will not say to much on this thread as i have replied on my forum and i have sent you a PM on here with my thoughts. I do agree with Anastasia and some of the others who have replied on this post. You have broke the ice now and he knows you love him and thats the main thing, all he needs is some support and even though you may not understand why, and deep down he says fascination because he cannot explain it himself as yet, you just need to show him you care and your open to him if he wants to talk. The most importent thing is his health and wellbeing and ovarall happiness. Is'nt that what we all want and he is no different. It is a hard thing to come to terms with and if i had a son who had done the same i would feel i had let him down aswell, but you havent, you cannot decide how someone feels or who someone wants to be in there life, the only time you will ever let him down is if you dont support and love him right now. Your a good mother and froim what i can tell a very loving and caring one so show him. He will open up when he is ready he just needs to feel its safe to do it and you need to show him that, and i know you can and will Sam. Good luck and let me know how you our.

Hugs Cheryl xxxx

P.S so much for not writing much on this thread lol sorry