08-03-2011, 01:06
Thank you all for you're time and advice.!!
Today has been a better day. I have taken the advice of Anastasia and Cheryl and some other's on here and really supported my son today.
I have taken the day of work and spent the day with my family, i insisted on it. And you know what, it has opened my eye's.
I have spent too long working every god given hour to provide for my family when all i was doing was pushing them away.
My Daughter now know's about what my son has done. And she said " well i don't care to be honest mum, it is abit weird but i guess he is the same person, he's just got boob's."
Now i thought about this and she is right!! He is still my son and i love him, i want him in my life and i will support what ever he choose's. I do not understand it and if the truth be know'ne then i would rather him not have breast's. But the fact is he has and very nice one's which i am very suprised at. I never thought a man could develop breast's like a woman!
I told my son how i felt and he told me he missed me, i cried and he cried and for the first time in 5 year's we cuddled. This may be one of the worst thing's i have had to cope with in my life but in away it has brought me closer to my son than i have ever been.
We spoke for hour's and laughed and even though i was struggling at time's it went well.
I still have massive concern's and the effect's of the hormone's and pill's he has taken is not just limited to his chest! I have seen my son today with just underwear and i will not lie and say it was easy, my first reaction was to cry, i was speechless but deep inside i felt pride in knowing my son would share this with me. It must have been the hardest thing he has ever done and i just gave him a huge cuddle!
He has agreed to see a doctor with me and to be honest from now on. I have agreed to help him and support him as a mother should even though i still wish this had not happened, but it has and now i will try to deal with it the best i can.
Here is a picture of my son now, and i am proud to say he look's beutiful.
This picture is my way of saying i except him, and to some it might appear strange that i would be proud of my son. But what else can i be but proud! and a little jelous...lol
I would like to say thank you for all your help and advice..! i never expected to find such support on forum's like this one and Cheryl's
I only used these forum's in the hope my son would see my post's and to get some insight into why he had done this. To get the support i have is a huge bonus..... THANK YOU.
Sam
Today has been a better day. I have taken the advice of Anastasia and Cheryl and some other's on here and really supported my son today.
I have taken the day of work and spent the day with my family, i insisted on it. And you know what, it has opened my eye's.
I have spent too long working every god given hour to provide for my family when all i was doing was pushing them away.
My Daughter now know's about what my son has done. And she said " well i don't care to be honest mum, it is abit weird but i guess he is the same person, he's just got boob's."
Now i thought about this and she is right!! He is still my son and i love him, i want him in my life and i will support what ever he choose's. I do not understand it and if the truth be know'ne then i would rather him not have breast's. But the fact is he has and very nice one's which i am very suprised at. I never thought a man could develop breast's like a woman!
I told my son how i felt and he told me he missed me, i cried and he cried and for the first time in 5 year's we cuddled. This may be one of the worst thing's i have had to cope with in my life but in away it has brought me closer to my son than i have ever been.
We spoke for hour's and laughed and even though i was struggling at time's it went well.
I still have massive concern's and the effect's of the hormone's and pill's he has taken is not just limited to his chest! I have seen my son today with just underwear and i will not lie and say it was easy, my first reaction was to cry, i was speechless but deep inside i felt pride in knowing my son would share this with me. It must have been the hardest thing he has ever done and i just gave him a huge cuddle!
He has agreed to see a doctor with me and to be honest from now on. I have agreed to help him and support him as a mother should even though i still wish this had not happened, but it has and now i will try to deal with it the best i can.
Here is a picture of my son now, and i am proud to say he look's beutiful.
This picture is my way of saying i except him, and to some it might appear strange that i would be proud of my son. But what else can i be but proud! and a little jelous...lol
I would like to say thank you for all your help and advice..! i never expected to find such support on forum's like this one and Cheryl's
I only used these forum's in the hope my son would see my post's and to get some insight into why he had done this. To get the support i have is a huge bonus..... THANK YOU.
Sam