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Lovingmum, I am absolutely delighted to hear you were able to rise to the situation, and very happy to hear you and your son were able to talk so openly and honestly about what has happened. It sounds like you have a fantastic chance of keeping your son in your life, and you in his, both in a positive and healthy way. So often it goes badly and life becomes less worth living for the people involved. I'm also really encouraged and have found your story inspiring. Thank you so much for having the courage to share it with all of us.

And you can tell your son that his achievement is amazing and beautiful to us as well. Also an inspiration to many of us!