14-03-2011, 13:46
aww nice story TM, I met my hubby on an adult social networking site. Like I said we talked as friends at first, he posted a blog asking for advice for a friend, she got pregnant by another friend of his and was considering abortion, he asked how he could convince her not to do it. And as you gals know with me here haha I am always up for giving my insight on difficult things. So I approached him to help with his friend, we talked online for 2 hours, even got on cam on yahoo to see each other while chatting, then we talked on the phone as I said cause I had things to do in the house and couldn't sit at the computer. And haha yea I couldn't go on a site specific to a religion because I don't follow an organized religion. His religious preferences wouldn't have been a big deal to me no matter what he believed in as long as he was accepting that I didn't believe the same. I find I can't date Christians because they would try to get in fights with me over religion. So yea that's what I meant by finding that out really.
It was strange though, at the time I met him, I wasn't looking! I was single for a year, planned to go to college the following fall, and just was going to concentrate on being independent, my son and myself. And then bam, he pops up. It seems to me when you're looking you don't find the right one, then when you don't try they just pop up haha.
I agree about the age thing that you can find someone even young. My cousin found his mrs. right in highschool. He was 14, she was 16, yes she's older than him haha. They got married when he was 19, beautiful wedding too. Ummm... I believe he's... 31 or so now? They have 2 kids together and are very happy. I'm not going to use me as an example with my son's father haha I did meet him when I was 15, but yea, not a good example for this. But I did meet my husband at 20, some say that's too young to settle down.
And TM, luckily I didn't marry my son's father, dodged a huge bullet there I'd say! He asked me after I had my son, but he changed into a monster while I was pregnant so I said no. I stayed with him as long as I did hoping he'd change back into the guy I fell for (he was 9 years older than me btw), but he never did. I also didn't want my son to be without his father, as I was without one. But sometimes what is difficult to do is the best thing over all. One day I woke up and decided enough was enough and I left. Never looked back. When I left him he got 10 times worse did all kinds of crap to try to get to me. It was ridiculous. But in the end I won. Dead beat dads never win haha. And now my son has a wonderful father, so all is good.
It was strange though, at the time I met him, I wasn't looking! I was single for a year, planned to go to college the following fall, and just was going to concentrate on being independent, my son and myself. And then bam, he pops up. It seems to me when you're looking you don't find the right one, then when you don't try they just pop up haha.
I agree about the age thing that you can find someone even young. My cousin found his mrs. right in highschool. He was 14, she was 16, yes she's older than him haha. They got married when he was 19, beautiful wedding too. Ummm... I believe he's... 31 or so now? They have 2 kids together and are very happy. I'm not going to use me as an example with my son's father haha I did meet him when I was 15, but yea, not a good example for this. But I did meet my husband at 20, some say that's too young to settle down.
And TM, luckily I didn't marry my son's father, dodged a huge bullet there I'd say! He asked me after I had my son, but he changed into a monster while I was pregnant so I said no. I stayed with him as long as I did hoping he'd change back into the guy I fell for (he was 9 years older than me btw), but he never did. I also didn't want my son to be without his father, as I was without one. But sometimes what is difficult to do is the best thing over all. One day I woke up and decided enough was enough and I left. Never looked back. When I left him he got 10 times worse did all kinds of crap to try to get to me. It was ridiculous. But in the end I won. Dead beat dads never win haha. And now my son has a wonderful father, so all is good.