16-03-2011, 18:37
Well, I wasn´t really thinking of not showing any interest at all, only of doing it more subtly. I mean you can show interest to a guy by flirting, smiling, looking him in the eyes, laughing hysterically when he makes some boring joke. You know!
I was just thinking that when you oficially show interest (it´s kinda more serious when you call or mail him) they feel there´s some pressure on them or something like that.
Some of my male friends tell me they get panicky when some girl is clearly after them, even if she´s gorgeous. Once I saw one of my best friends get all nervous when this beautiful thin blonde girl with big boobs, small waist asked him to dance with her on a party and began to ask him if he liked her, etc. She also tried to kiss him. He was avoiding her all night after that and it was really stupid because all guys were hot for her! (Oh and this friend isn´t some kind of nerd, he´s always succesful with women.)
But anyway, it may not work in every case. It´s just what I´ve observed.
I was just thinking that when you oficially show interest (it´s kinda more serious when you call or mail him) they feel there´s some pressure on them or something like that.
Some of my male friends tell me they get panicky when some girl is clearly after them, even if she´s gorgeous. Once I saw one of my best friends get all nervous when this beautiful thin blonde girl with big boobs, small waist asked him to dance with her on a party and began to ask him if he liked her, etc. She also tried to kiss him. He was avoiding her all night after that and it was really stupid because all guys were hot for her! (Oh and this friend isn´t some kind of nerd, he´s always succesful with women.)
But anyway, it may not work in every case. It´s just what I´ve observed.