20-03-2011, 17:39
Hi Padme,
Sorry you are going through this, its always tough.
However, assuming that you are taking BO because you wanted to and not because your ex pushed you into it, then now is exactly the right time to continue to do things for yourself, because you want to, not for him or anyone else.
However unlikely it seems at this precise minute, there will be another guy in the future and you will be the 'you' that you want to be, for him. So, No, don't stop.
Pansy Mae
Sorry you are going through this, its always tough.
However, assuming that you are taking BO because you wanted to and not because your ex pushed you into it, then now is exactly the right time to continue to do things for yourself, because you want to, not for him or anyone else.
However unlikely it seems at this precise minute, there will be another guy in the future and you will be the 'you' that you want to be, for him. So, No, don't stop.
Pansy Mae