[Kelly9]

I know i shouldn't be worrying about this but I get called flat sometimes and it hurts.
I wear a bra that makes my breasts slightly bigger but...
SUMMER TIME.
My mom doesn't seem to want me to wear bigger suits cause she says there to big for me.
I've tried them on and they mostly fit and it makes it look like i have bigger breasts.
I don't want to be super flat this summer!
ALL my friends have bigger breasts!!!
I've massaged with olive oil and lotion, I also put a heating pad, to make them swell and I drink soooo much milk and it doesn't seem to work!!!
I can't buy any creams or pills, or ask my mom for them!
Please help me!
And please don't judge.
THANKS (:

Hello Sweetie,
You are 12 years old. Just look at your Mom and Grandma, and your Dad's Mom. What runs in the family? This is the only way to know.

When I was your age (like one millions years ago ) there was a girl in my class and she was sooo flat. I already had breasts, and I really remember feeling bad for her. Years went by, and my breasts felt like they were the same, but that friend's brests, after only 4-5 years... where just absurd! What happened?????? She looked like Pamela Anderson! Mistery.

Bottom line: you are too young to worry. I know it's hard to hear kids making fun of you: I have been through that too. I used to have a big butt. I still do, but now I know it's better having a big, beautiful butt than big breasts. Men like big butts and toned boobs. Not huge. We, women think that, but it's not true. We are sooooo hard on ourselves.

Kisses,
Kelly9