19-04-2011, 04:25
Sorry to hear about this, but something like this has just happened to my mum, she is 60yrs old (i'm 23) my dad (74) is a showman and has been travelling australia since I was a little girl, but this year he met someone on a trip and started having an affair on my mum, he even had the balls to bring her to mum's house to live!! WTF!! My brother and I confronted him and asked him what was going on... he told me there was nothing going on... bullshit!! When my brother (25) had talked to him a fight broke out and the next day the women was on a train to her mum's. Mum got depressed quickly and wanted to kill herself so I took her to my house so she could figure out what she wanted to do, she asked me what my thoughts where and what I would do if I was in her situation.. I told her to tell him to leave... he wanted to leave anyway because he was in love with someone else, he just didn't want to admit it to me, mum or my brother, I'll never forget the day he left my mum he got what he could and pretty much flew out of our driveway and down the street, he drove 24hrs straight to her... bastard after he told me he was going to meet some other friends, he's now in a relationship with her and trying to have a baby with it!!
It wouldn't be so bad if things where different, but he met my mum via letters to the phillipines she don't know anything, she has never worked, he wouldn't let her get a drivers licence, he controlled everything she did, since he has left she relys on my brother and I too look after everything, (we don't mind), she looked after us when we where young it's time to give back.
But for mum it was very ruff the first 2-3 months, but she getting better everyday since I moved back home, she's got me and my kids to think about and keep her mind busy...
What I'm trying to say to you is, you don't need him, just concertrate on what you've got and the friends and family will get you through the hard times, think about the song by the pussycat dolls "I don't need a man" I wish you the best of luck, I have seen how hard it is, but in time you will get through this
It wouldn't be so bad if things where different, but he met my mum via letters to the phillipines she don't know anything, she has never worked, he wouldn't let her get a drivers licence, he controlled everything she did, since he has left she relys on my brother and I too look after everything, (we don't mind), she looked after us when we where young it's time to give back.
But for mum it was very ruff the first 2-3 months, but she getting better everyday since I moved back home, she's got me and my kids to think about and keep her mind busy...
What I'm trying to say to you is, you don't need him, just concertrate on what you've got and the friends and family will get you through the hard times, think about the song by the pussycat dolls "I don't need a man" I wish you the best of luck, I have seen how hard it is, but in time you will get through this