20-06-2011, 20:17
Aw, that´s too bad, but try not to hang on to those negative feelings your "friend" gave you, otherwise she´s the one who has won. She made some hurtful comment, probably with the intention to make you feel bad, and you are indeed letting yourself feel bad about it. The best revenge (so to say) you can have is not letting it get to you, and the fact is she probably already forgot everything about it while you´re still thinking about it. Don´t give her the power to make you feel bad, she´s not that important. I know it´s hard to do, but just let it go! Words are just some noise combined with air, right? Loving yourself also means making yourself feel as happy as possible all the time, and that means not hanging on to unhappy feelings.
hugs and take care!
hugs and take care!