20-06-2011, 20:59
Pheeeeeuw, Gasolinerainbow,
You're taking a weight off my chest. So happy this worked out. If he doesn't understand, demand respect. And think carefully about how you're going to bring up the subject, each time.
Truth is, he honestly doesn't know how you feel. It will get better after he's gone through a few experiences that change his perspective. The first time he'll be discriminated against himself. The first time he feels unsafe. The first time he feels helpless. The first time he feels betrayed or humiliated. If he's smart, he'll know that these lessons teach him something about how you two relate to each other.
Almost forgot: yeay for 38"!
You're taking a weight off my chest. So happy this worked out. If he doesn't understand, demand respect. And think carefully about how you're going to bring up the subject, each time.
Truth is, he honestly doesn't know how you feel. It will get better after he's gone through a few experiences that change his perspective. The first time he'll be discriminated against himself. The first time he feels unsafe. The first time he feels helpless. The first time he feels betrayed or humiliated. If he's smart, he'll know that these lessons teach him something about how you two relate to each other.
Almost forgot: yeay for 38"!