[beachbumbythesea]

OK..now that you mentioned other things about him...sorry but my ex sounds like him and he was to me verbally and physically abusive ( ended me in a mental health hosp. well outpatient and it was my choice and it was the best choice, it made me think of who I am and I come first).. he would do the condensing things...like tell me I how awsome I am this and that then the next breath he will comment some girl on tv or down grade me..my ex was bipolar and schziphenic sp?..and needed help but wanted to cont.. doing his drugs..as for my man now he is a man to me, he actually is helping me not be lazy doing this NBE meaning I want to look good for him and myself but of course myself first he just gives me the push without him knowing it..He does alot for me mentally and physcially..when we are together he is always doing the cooking and whatever and he tells me to relax..lol cause I keep him busy in the bedroom..he should relax..anyway your boyfriend does not sound mature at all..Here is an example of my boyfriend..I am very self consious sp? of my breast and butt area..I even joke to him about it and when we first got together I show them too him and he said I think they are cute and you have nice nipples..so yeah he does like them but I do think he would want them bigger but I do too..if I didnt then that is a whole different story..I am feeling really good about myself that I am changing my body it is making me feel sexy and feminine sp?..so bottom line is it is up to you in your gut of what it will all turn out to be..if he doesnt fit you wants then you need to find someone that does..you come first remember that..Please if this relationship is hurting you mentally (just as bad if not worse then physcial..yes Isabelle is right) get out..really..it took me a while to make a plan cause I was living with him and was afraid of him hurting me if I tried to leave..anyway I am safe and have so much better man