28-06-2011, 19:37
hey all.
I realize these things just happen and I haven’t really pursued anything in the last few years (been single for almost 3) just to let things develop of their own accord but nothing has at all which is why I ask the question.
Chance encounters can be fruitful but that is what they are, chance encounters, and I was starting to think that love does not find you, you have to find it. Or at least be actively out in the big wide world for these meetings to happen, which at the moment I’m not. I have a very small friend circle, which I don’t stray from, and we go out to the same place all the time. There is nothing new and my life has become rather closed consisting of work, home and get together with the few friends I have. I really like the suggestion of going to groups and hobby clubs at the very least to meet new people.
I actually I happen to be Catholic too, its nice you found love that way and it sorts out a lot of problems right of the bat. however I do not have a strong enough faith/follow the church so passionately to ever go by such a rout. Faith sites are a good suggestion for people who are really religiously observant I think because you will both know the score. I had a friend at uni who became religious while she was there and observed a lot of the teachings to the letter. It made dating anyone outside of her faith difficult because they wouldn’t get basic things like even why she went to church. She eventually found a nice guy from here church groups and it was a whole lot easier.
I realize these things just happen and I haven’t really pursued anything in the last few years (been single for almost 3) just to let things develop of their own accord but nothing has at all which is why I ask the question.
Chance encounters can be fruitful but that is what they are, chance encounters, and I was starting to think that love does not find you, you have to find it. Or at least be actively out in the big wide world for these meetings to happen, which at the moment I’m not. I have a very small friend circle, which I don’t stray from, and we go out to the same place all the time. There is nothing new and my life has become rather closed consisting of work, home and get together with the few friends I have. I really like the suggestion of going to groups and hobby clubs at the very least to meet new people.
I actually I happen to be Catholic too, its nice you found love that way and it sorts out a lot of problems right of the bat. however I do not have a strong enough faith/follow the church so passionately to ever go by such a rout. Faith sites are a good suggestion for people who are really religiously observant I think because you will both know the score. I had a friend at uni who became religious while she was there and observed a lot of the teachings to the letter. It made dating anyone outside of her faith difficult because they wouldn’t get basic things like even why she went to church. She eventually found a nice guy from here church groups and it was a whole lot easier.