05-09-2011, 09:24
Maybe there's a serious issue with his looks or health. If you've had phone sex, you know what it could be. Make him feel comfortable with the idea that you focus on his possibilities, not on his limitations.
He could have personality issues that get worse as the level of intimacy in a relationship increases. Not likely, because in that case, he would already have started dosing between sms and phone sex.
Here's the old tranny trick to deal with commitment issues. Find the place or event you would both enjoy going to. Pick something you would enjoy anyway, with or without him. Let him know you're there. Be there, make sure you can be identified in the crowd, and put up a show. It can take several tries before he bites, and even if he doesn't, you still had a good time. And you never know who else gets interested.
He could have personality issues that get worse as the level of intimacy in a relationship increases. Not likely, because in that case, he would already have started dosing between sms and phone sex.
Here's the old tranny trick to deal with commitment issues. Find the place or event you would both enjoy going to. Pick something you would enjoy anyway, with or without him. Let him know you're there. Be there, make sure you can be identified in the crowd, and put up a show. It can take several tries before he bites, and even if he doesn't, you still had a good time. And you never know who else gets interested.