[Bibi]

Thanks for your replies! I´m probably being too "tactful" in that I don´t want to be pushy, insisting on getting together. As we´ve been intimate on the phone and everything I feel it would be too much, you know? Like I´m coming on too strong. So I guess I can sense some sort of shyness or whatever on his part, some subtle signs that it overwhelms him a bit, even though he doesn´t stop the contact.

The idea of going to an event where we could meet is a good one, Isabelle, I´ll have to think when and where, it might not be too soon.
I was just wondering what this behaviour of his could mean emotionally (I have wondered if he had some health issue but it would´ve shown, right?) and why someone would act like that. Oh and Isabelle what do you mean about dosing between the chats and phone? Because I´ve noticed he does take some days off (so to speak) after we´ve had some more intense conversations, but he always resumes things after a couple of days.