06-09-2011, 14:46
Well, Pansy Mae,
I'm not sure he's into thrills. He might even be avoiding them.
And Bibi, what I mean is texting and chatting are less intimate than actually hearing a voice. If he has issues with fear, e.g. of intimacy, it should be a lot easier to get him started in a chat than on the phone.
But what you write looks different. He may just have a secondary way of reacting to emotions. I have that myself: if something intense happens, I don't know if I liked it until two or three days later. That is the time for the next step.
You may find it hard to get used to being in the dark for two days. But other than that, it's very easy to deal with. Put a beep in your agenda at the time when he'll be finished processing the emotions. Use the time to think of a good one liner, and text him.
Good luck, I do hope Pansy Mae is not right on this one, even though she usually is.
I'm not sure he's into thrills. He might even be avoiding them.
And Bibi, what I mean is texting and chatting are less intimate than actually hearing a voice. If he has issues with fear, e.g. of intimacy, it should be a lot easier to get him started in a chat than on the phone.
But what you write looks different. He may just have a secondary way of reacting to emotions. I have that myself: if something intense happens, I don't know if I liked it until two or three days later. That is the time for the next step.
You may find it hard to get used to being in the dark for two days. But other than that, it's very easy to deal with. Put a beep in your agenda at the time when he'll be finished processing the emotions. Use the time to think of a good one liner, and text him.
Good luck, I do hope Pansy Mae is not right on this one, even though she usually is.