[Cheryl1989]

Hi Bibi, my opinion is that he has performance issues when actually with someone, this can effect men in very serious ways, he might have some thing that he is very embarresed about, a small penis or something he finds hard to admit to anyone. im curious has he sent you pictures or anything like that ? There could be so many reasons for him being how he is. But usually a man would jump at the opportunity of sex or just being intimate with someone they like so there is a problem that you really need to get to the bottom of. Are you 100% sure he is single ? because alot of men do this kind of thing, its a form of cheating without the risk in most cases. Im not saying thats the case, i mean you know him hun so you know best but i know of this thing happening. I do think you need to comfront him, do it in a joking way and just say why dont you want to meet up with me now ? is there a problem, and make him feel comfortable and like he can tell you anything in the world. The minute he is convinced that he can tell you his problems then believe me he will, i think he just needs to know you will understand whatever his problem is. If he doesent tell you something after a few weeks of you convincing him he can talk to you about it then i think theres a serious problem, and i then mean he has a girlfriend or he is just doing this for some sexual fantasy reasons. I was like this when i started developing breasts, i avoided contact with women i liked and i also had phone sex and so on, i was still attracted to women then, and it was because one of these female friends convinced me i could tell them anything that i actually come clean and told them. Im not saying he is anything like me or like that in any way but theres something he is hiding 100%. PM me anytime chick if you want and let me know hows things progress with this guy

Hugs Cheryl xxxx