[amberd88]

I opened up the messages in his facebook, and saw one flirtatious message that he initiated the flirtations. Now the woman is a lesbian, and apparently my boyfriend was the only man she ever had a crush on in high school. This is the conversation
her : punk
him: yes i am, thank you *blush*
her: (blah blah about how she is unhappy but its not all bad)
him: well sweet thing i have to go
her: ok hansom

now that was the only time they talked and it was back in aug.

I just feel like my part of the relationship has been disrespected, and how do you feel about "harmless" flirting?

Since they haven't talked since aug, im sure it isnt anything, but i know that i wouldn't initiate something like that knowing its "harmless". He would flip shit if he read something like that from me... He flipped out when i vented via text to a friend and my friend didnt have nice things to say about him, but he went through my phone and then we had a huge fight about it. Should i just let this go?