12-11-2009, 01:44
Sunnygirl....wow haven't alot of us been in this situation before? Yea it's embarrassing. However, the best way to handle it is to be honest before that moment comes. The night i met my guy(3 1/2 yrs ago), I was wearing a halter top with a padded bra. We were just talking, getting to know each other, telling things about ourselves. I just said it...."yea well, this(as i put my hands on my boobs) is not all me" and he said"padded bra?" and I said"yep" and that was it. A month later when things got to that moment, I was embarrassed some, but not too much cuz he knew WAY before that moment what i didn't have. And he chose to be with me anyways. And even now, he still tells me he is happy with my boobs....and most of the women he has been with have had decent size boobs, most had boobs jobs. He even tells me how sexy i am when i am running around thehouse with no bra on under my shirt.
IF this guy is really interested in you for YOU, then the size of your boobs shouldn't matter. I don't know how old you are, but I have found that the older men get, the less boobs are important. Oh sure they like to look at big boobs, men are men, but I know so many guys who say that they like small boobs, would rather have small boobs to fake boobs.
Just be careful and be honest. Good luck! And remember one thing, you are beautiful no matter what size boobs you have....took me yrs to realize this.....
Laisegirl
IF this guy is really interested in you for YOU, then the size of your boobs shouldn't matter. I don't know how old you are, but I have found that the older men get, the less boobs are important. Oh sure they like to look at big boobs, men are men, but I know so many guys who say that they like small boobs, would rather have small boobs to fake boobs.
Just be careful and be honest. Good luck! And remember one thing, you are beautiful no matter what size boobs you have....took me yrs to realize this.....
Laisegirl