[sgc42]

This is my first month using PM and I've cycled as usual I'm on the luteal phase and this is already my second time bleeding and my menses isn't due for another week. I haven't grown at all and I'm so concerned for my health. My husband has no idea that I'm doing this and I'm embarrassed to tell him. I've hid my bleeding from him and I don't want him to find out I'm bleeding again....all my friends are getting their breast enhanced surgically and I wish I had the money to just skip all this and get them done...I'm sorry I just feel sooo hopeless and needed to vent : (

Right now, I'm doing exactly what you just described, period on day 20. I feel your frustration believe me. I've posted in my program about it yesterday. I'm also very confused and don't know what to do. I also started menses at age 12, always regular. Now I'm 43, at first I didn't cycle PM, and it never messed up my cycle. But then I became estrogen dominant so I started cycling with progesterone cream, which helped, but this cycle I used fenugreek instead and started menses a whole week early I don't think I even ovulated when I should've. Maybe it's perimenopause who know's. But I feel so bad right now that I also feel like giving up all this stuff. I do plan to lay off PM until I get get my next period, I wouldn't dare take any right now. I'll give it another chance since I did make a change this cycle. I'll go back to progesterone cream during luteal and see if that straightens this mess up. But if it doesn't, I'll probably drop hormones all together and try another route. It might sound strange to keep messing with this stuff when I have a bad effect, the only explanation I have for my need to make it work is the fact that I have gained a full cup now using pm. But I have to say that one more cycle with this awful feeling and I'd be willing to give it up and try to be somewhat content It's awful to find something that works for nbe and then find out that I can't take it.