[TibetanPrincess]

I would want him grabbing on mine not me grabbing his or him grabbin his. But I am pretty open minded. I find females and males attractive. I guess my thing is , If I fell for you as a man, I want you to not change. If I fell for you as a female whether you were born one or not, I would still not want you to change. But no matter what, I would accept you as a human being

I guess in this NBE journey, I would like to be the "ultimate woman" in the relationship as it was so hardly worked for and I would like to be highly admired for it by my mate not side by side competing in a sense.

But Tiffany, you are who you are and dont ever feel guilty for wanting what you want. If I were in your shoes, I would fully develop myself as I wished to be as the "UltimateTiffany" and if the person beside me still wants to be with me at the end of the day, fantastic. But if not, I would move on and find someone who FULLY accepts me.

Just my opinion

TibetanPrincess