[Lacey Ra]

I can understand the way you feel about her. And I do have to agree with you that she probably does have some pretty severe body image problems. She admits as much herself in some of her more... well... cognizant moments.

Because of her dis-morphia, I severely doubt she even realizes what she's doing when she does reflect it off onto others. It's her own personal demon that she has to fight and she's not an enemy for having to fight it. At least, not in my view of things.

I have a dis-morphia too, you know. Mines so bad it's in the DSM as a mental disorder. My body says I'm a man. But I think I'm a woman.

Do you perhaps need to ignore some of what she says? Definitely. But I honestly do not think it's entirely her fault. Just like I don't think it's your fault for getting riled up by it. They're both natural reactions to certain stimuli that react in very rotten ways with your individual demons.

I still think you're both very wonderful people who just have some very rotten hands dealt to you and you both need to cool off and THINK before you post to each other. And maybe just not do so for a while.

So...

*HUGS!*

I can't say it's her fault entirely, because I know I'm no saint. But after months of her negative comments I'M DONE!! I love inspiring people to grow their breasts, I love when people come and tell me about their progress with NBE or even their failures. I love when people say I did something you did and got growth so for her to come and try and tear apart that trust that those women place in me to be honest and faithful with them about my measurements, is not okay! She crossed my line! So I'm done with her! And I'm alot happier for it, I'm sorry but I won't ever let that evil person back into my life. So I know you wanna be Ms. Fix-It, but this is the only solution to the matter.

But I do hope you can defeat your own demon and get over your disorder aswell! Just please don't cast it out on others, its hurtful to you and them.

[huggies back]