[TibetanPrincess]

Luxy, it's not that easy.

When you invest years into a relationship and have children (I believe I read she was pregnant), throwing it all away on an event that happened BEFORE the wedding is not the wisest of decisions. While I do know how everything unfolded, it appears that he loved her enough to bring the situation to light and not hide it anymore. As it seems that he has been faithful after they said their "I Do's," maybe all the guilt he has been carrying around for the last 6-7 years has been helpful in keeping him faithful.

Staying together for the children, as long as violence is not involved, is a very good thing.

My bad, I reread the original post and found it wasn't amberd88 who was pregnant, but the other girl. That being said, I believe my point is still valid.

Or she could be really sorry for putting all that time in and trying to fix something that wasn't a true relationship in the first place, down the road.
So she could be damned either way she chooses. I think this is all great advice we are giving but only she will truly know what she is comfortable
doing about it.

I wish you her the best, this is a tough one.