[CousinRose]

I am so sorry for what you are going through. Did he tell you all of this without you finding out? I think that makes a huge difference in everything. I always say that I prefer to know that my boyfriends are human and make mistakes, then having them lying to me. I can forgive mistakes (not too big though) but lies are harder to forgive.

He told you this. He could have just kept it to himself and never told you. At least he is not a total piece of ... you know what.

You will make the right decision. What do your instincts tell you? They are probably right.