[BeneGesserit]

Doll, there is a precious substance called She-Laq made by Benefit. I say precious because for some ungodly reason Benefit d/c it. It makes anything cheap or good quality waterproof and oil proof. If you can somehow still find it its well worth the price. If you have loose powder e/l or e/s mix it with Visine original it will stay all day and all night but still not quite as impervious as She-Laq. For inner lid lining I use nothing but Guerlain's powdered liners and apply it eastern style and that stays all day and night too. For e/s in general Urban Decay's or Nars' primer potion and UD's Cannonball mascara is appropriately named as it is smudge and waterproof. I have gone swimming with it on and it never budged!

As far as feeling sexy I agree with most: sexy is a state of mind! If you feel sexy you will be sexy! Be confident and the rest will follow!