Luxy,
For a nineteen year old, you sure have some deep seated anger issues.
Dragging up a three and a half year old post and complaining about it?
Being a "victim" is all in your attitude. You can blame everyone else in your life for all of your woes. Or, you can go out and get the most out of life in spite of how much you get dumped on.
You can put two different kids in a room full of manure and one will complain about the stench while the other will start digging trying to find the pony...
Both my brother and I grew up in the same home broken up by booze. He has a victim mentality that says his poor life is circumstances' fault. He would have been a success in life if life hadn't treated him so poorly and given him the shaft.
While I, on the other hand, got over it and made something of my life. Put myself through college, have a wife and four wonderful kids to name a few things. This holiday season I have my family to enjoy it with and he has his pity party.
Its all about that old addage: when life hands you a bowl of lemons, just add some sugar and make lemonade.
I do not know what is up your craw, but you sure seem to have issues.
Put your "big girl panties" on and grow up.
JTX
For a nineteen year old, you sure have some deep seated anger issues.
Dragging up a three and a half year old post and complaining about it?
Being a "victim" is all in your attitude. You can blame everyone else in your life for all of your woes. Or, you can go out and get the most out of life in spite of how much you get dumped on.
You can put two different kids in a room full of manure and one will complain about the stench while the other will start digging trying to find the pony...
Both my brother and I grew up in the same home broken up by booze. He has a victim mentality that says his poor life is circumstances' fault. He would have been a success in life if life hadn't treated him so poorly and given him the shaft.
While I, on the other hand, got over it and made something of my life. Put myself through college, have a wife and four wonderful kids to name a few things. This holiday season I have my family to enjoy it with and he has his pity party.
Its all about that old addage: when life hands you a bowl of lemons, just add some sugar and make lemonade.
I do not know what is up your craw, but you sure seem to have issues.
Put your "big girl panties" on and grow up.
JTX