[Anastasia916]

Basically, in short. Those of us more experienced here have NOT forgotten what it's like to first start into NBE for the first time. I have NEVER stopped learning. I still don't understand cycling PM entirely, how to track phases of the cycle, etc. etc. And I've been involved in NBE for YEARS. But, it is EXTREMELY annoying to be asked the same stuff over and over and over and over when it has been answered a million times. It's also annoying when someone wants the miracle to bigger breasts just dropped onto their laps when most of us had to do countless hours of research, countless months and years experimenting, to find what worked for us. So yes, I have to agree, that it sounds like whining when someone says the forum is overwhelming. I also get irritated when people post the SAME thread or question multiple times within one section, or get pissed when no one replies. Generally it's because it's a subject that has been touched countless times or we don't know the answer or it's a simple google search away and we feel the person is being lazy. Point is, NONE of us are paid to give the advice we do, we are NOT obligated to answer, and demanding us to is selfish (I have this happen ALL the time in emails and in PMs). I have a busier life than most people. I work 60-80+ hours a week, I have a kid and hubby, I have a life to tend to as well. All the other members do as well. So yea, why get all pissy pants about something that provides FREE information? Most so called "gurus" in NBE charge money for books that only scratch the surface of the information you can find here. So, I say as a new member, it should be your obligation to take a week to read around, become familiar with what NBE is about, maybe a few methods, THEN ask questions. And the thing about acronyms, there are threads for that too. There is a search feature on this forum it's located at the top right hand corner and has a magnifying glass symbol and says "search", it's very easy to use.