[Outofstyle]

For a boost of confidence first thing in the morning, I used to prepare for a wonderful day-to-come the night before. In the evening, I'd pick out what I plan to wear the next day (any jewlery I wanted to wear too, I always forget it in the morning) and then I would put it to the side and place a little love note to myself on top of it "Today will be a wonderful day, love yours truly" or "You are a beautiful, confident, compassionate being and today is going to rock! - your truest love"

I'd always sign it with love - you are your truest love and it is important to remember - and know that I put thought into what I would wear, and already had decided that regardless of what the day brought, it was going to be a good day and I was going to shine.

If you remember this throughout your day, others will see you shining too. I notice the difference in how people respond to me when I am feeling good about myself and loving who I am and it is remarkable.

With confidence and compassion you will seem warm and inviting, and people will see you as kind and sensual