20-02-2013, 06:03
Well first, you need to have self discovery and figure out how exactly you personally reach orgasm before a man can give it to you. My suggestion, get a few toys and experiment. I learned how to give myself extreme orgasms before any "man" could. How I orgasm best without having sex is by masturbating in the bath tub. I position myself under the running water faucet (the tub faucet not the shower head, shower head is too strong for me). I make the water hot, not boiling hot, but a little hotter than warm. I then move myself back and forth in a rocking motion with my vagina positioned under the running water. I don't think about anything except the feeling I'm feeling, very important to block anything else out of your mind.
That helps the best for me, other than that when I use toys I can squirt but I have to do alot of clit stimulation and getting my prostate to fill first. That aspect takes a bit more patience and practice.
Hope this helps. But seriously you don't NEED a man! How do you think lesbian couples do it? I promise you they both orgasm. Most men are assholes about that, they only care about their own pleasure. You need to find one that cares about yours also. A true gentleman will let the girl cum first.
That helps the best for me, other than that when I use toys I can squirt but I have to do alot of clit stimulation and getting my prostate to fill first. That aspect takes a bit more patience and practice.
Hope this helps. But seriously you don't NEED a man! How do you think lesbian couples do it? I promise you they both orgasm. Most men are assholes about that, they only care about their own pleasure. You need to find one that cares about yours also. A true gentleman will let the girl cum first.