[quote='vitoria2013' pid='70796' dateline='1363455955'
Its like if i start to behave more female girls would say things like "behave like you used to behave", "dont change", "you wanst that way", "thats not you", and boys i prefer to not give examples, but what they could say isnt the worst, what about what they can do? All the shi* that i had to hear when i was young and all that i passed, i dont want the lack of respect again, never.
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Its hard to really know what to say because you are totally right. If you express who you are, your sexuality, etc, then you will probably have to see how judgmental and mean people can be. But I what I really hope I can tell you, and make you believe, is that you can find people that will love, accept, and appreciate who you are. It won't be most people but there are always some. I don't know if its worth it to you to give up the respect of most people for the real respect of just a few people....but it is possible to find love for who you are.
Have you found a good religious community? Its sad that most people who say they love God, are the most cruel and judgmental! I know that many Christians are not very understanding of people who are different, but there are some! If you are looking for a spiritual group that you can talk to and be honest with, I would try to find a "Society of Friends" group - also called the "Quakers." The Quakers that I have met are simply the most kind and understanding people I've ever known. Hope that helps.
Its like if i start to behave more female girls would say things like "behave like you used to behave", "dont change", "you wanst that way", "thats not you", and boys i prefer to not give examples, but what they could say isnt the worst, what about what they can do? All the shi* that i had to hear when i was young and all that i passed, i dont want the lack of respect again, never.
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Its hard to really know what to say because you are totally right. If you express who you are, your sexuality, etc, then you will probably have to see how judgmental and mean people can be. But I what I really hope I can tell you, and make you believe, is that you can find people that will love, accept, and appreciate who you are. It won't be most people but there are always some. I don't know if its worth it to you to give up the respect of most people for the real respect of just a few people....but it is possible to find love for who you are.
Have you found a good religious community? Its sad that most people who say they love God, are the most cruel and judgmental! I know that many Christians are not very understanding of people who are different, but there are some! If you are looking for a spiritual group that you can talk to and be honest with, I would try to find a "Society of Friends" group - also called the "Quakers." The Quakers that I have met are simply the most kind and understanding people I've ever known. Hope that helps.