04-04-2013, 18:18
(This post was last modified: 04-04-2013, 18:21 by Anastasia916.)
I read through some of the comments here, and I wanted to say that no matter what I think everyone is teased or made fun of at some point. When I was in middle and high school, I was very skinny, size 0-2, I was basically flat chested, not much hips but a round bubble butt. I was made fun of, names like "anorexic" "stick" "flatty" "big ass" "bubble", etc. etc. and what they all boiled down to was jealousy. Looking back the ones that made fun of me for being skinny were fat, the ones that made fun of me for having no chest, if it was a girl it was because I was friends with her boyfriend or her boyfriend liked me, if it was a guy it's because they couldn't get a pretty girl at all anyway, the ones that made fun of my butt had none themselves, completely flat. So I agree with other posters here that people make fun of others for their own insecurities. Now that I'm not skinny have some chest now, etc. I still get remarks by some people. People have said to my husband "your wife let herself go" with concerning me gaining weight since we've been married. Well reality check, we were 20 when we got married, I'm now 25, after 21 or so my metabolism slowed down, same thing happened with my mom, she is morbidly obese, I'm overweight now but not obese and working on it.
So yea, I think no matter what people will pick on you for you or pick on the ones you love to try to bring you down. Misery likes company. All I do is not let it get to me, I remain confident and don't listen to their BS. My husband loves me no matter what, he has NEVER called me fat, skinny, flat, any of those things. And he recently lost a ton of weight and got in shape, he still doesn't make me feel bad that I haven't yet. He lost 70lbs in 6-7 months, went from a I think 36 or 38 waist in jeans to now a 30 waist. So at least 3 pant sizes. I'm proud of him and I'm going to get there too, it's just harder for women to lose weight :/
But yea, just keep your heads high ladies, stay positive and negative people won't be able to effect you and they'll just go away.
So yea, I think no matter what people will pick on you for you or pick on the ones you love to try to bring you down. Misery likes company. All I do is not let it get to me, I remain confident and don't listen to their BS. My husband loves me no matter what, he has NEVER called me fat, skinny, flat, any of those things. And he recently lost a ton of weight and got in shape, he still doesn't make me feel bad that I haven't yet. He lost 70lbs in 6-7 months, went from a I think 36 or 38 waist in jeans to now a 30 waist. So at least 3 pant sizes. I'm proud of him and I'm going to get there too, it's just harder for women to lose weight :/
But yea, just keep your heads high ladies, stay positive and negative people won't be able to effect you and they'll just go away.