17-05-2013, 01:02
I have to agree with Abi. "Disorder" is a label given by the ignorant. Just like I'm "technically" autistic... doctors diagnosed me as a kid with it, basically I have a few learning curves as I call them, I hate the term learning disability, I'm not disabled. My mind just works different than others. I'm on the mild spectrum of autism. Basically my reading comprehension sucks, I have to read something slower than most people and more than once to absorb it, I am better at isolating a problem and working on one thing at a time or I can multitask. I actually have an IQ of 136 last I was tested when I was 21. So I'm far from "disabled" nor do I have a "disorder". So basically I can't speed read and I learn different than other people, hard to explain.
So I definitely don't think because in your mind your one gender and on the outside you're another that you have a "disorder". You are who you are and that's that. If you workout enough, eat right, and get your body fat percentage under 15% I can guarantee you will loose your curves. Do it right though so you don't end up with saggy skin, my hubby lost 70 lbs last year and didn't end up with loose skin (he claims he has some, he really doesn't he's being hard on himself), because he did the weight loss gradually. I wish you luck in this new venture. I'm just envious of your results from NBE and in such a short period of time
wish I had the same luck haha mine took much more time and of course I didn't get as big. But yea, if you can get that far in feminizing, I think you would do just as good if not better transitioning to where you really want to be.
So I definitely don't think because in your mind your one gender and on the outside you're another that you have a "disorder". You are who you are and that's that. If you workout enough, eat right, and get your body fat percentage under 15% I can guarantee you will loose your curves. Do it right though so you don't end up with saggy skin, my hubby lost 70 lbs last year and didn't end up with loose skin (he claims he has some, he really doesn't he's being hard on himself), because he did the weight loss gradually. I wish you luck in this new venture. I'm just envious of your results from NBE and in such a short period of time
