[Lycaryth]

The community I knew had many people who would not put much effort into themselves. I always found it a shame to see these men and women be content with looking gay or eccentric, knowing they were still unhappy. The drama queens are the ones who sit around feeling sorry for themselves year after year.
My ex being MtF was not a 'bad experience' and had nothing do with my leaving her. She started her journey before we got married and I helped out everywhere I could. I left because she was unfaithful.

Yes, I'm sure my view is stereotypical, but we are all guilty of that since the three of you just drew your own conclusions and lumped me into a stereotype as well.
All I meant to say is that it is refreshing to see someone work so hard at their happiness. Whether that is MtF, FtM or any form of building yourself to your own ideal. I consider myself quite lazy in my own efforts and someone like Doll, to me, is an inspiration to try harder.

Back to Doll's topic:
I thought this was an interesting article about spot reduction:
http://www.t-nation.com/free_online_article/most_recent/spot_reduction_is_real_heres_how_to_do_it