[TibetanPrincess]

Alrighty people, I really need your help!! I'm dating this guy, we started off as best friends and started actually dating 3 months ago. We got talking and he openly stated to me that he wasn't too attracted to me physically which is why we didn't date earlier. He only sees me as a best friend and can't do anything more with me because of how I look. He specifically mentioned my breast size, like the girls he had dated earlier were more developed. This caused a big fight between us and we just don't know how to resolved it...

I know that I'm undersized... I'm 19 years old and can barely fit an A cup. I'm about 5' 7" and weigh about 105 pounds. It doesn't help that I'm a dairy vegetarian (meaning that I eat dairy but nothing else coming from animals). We're currently taking a break because of this argument caused. I'm going home from college over Summer Break and we'll be about 430 miles apart until I see him again in August. I have this summer to get my body in shape for him. I really need some advice on how to utilize this summer and come back a more curvy woman for him.

It's his first serious relationship and he's just confused about things and what love is about and why he can't get closer to me. My small breasts don't leave him satisfied and I can't do anything about it. We're not sexually active but enjoy our touchy feely phase, or so I thought... Please please please, help me!! Give me some advice on what to do. Anything that'll really help me. How to do these massages, what to eat, how to increase my breast size without going through any surgery. I don't want him to think I'm pathetic or anything. If it's all natural he'll approve and we won't have that physical issue between us. Any help will be greatly appreciated. I love him so much and I know he does too, we're just really awkward right now..

Please don't be pathetic over a guy! Small breasts can be beautiful and feminine. What a Jerk! Now if your breasts are ugly(no matter what size they are or could be) I can understand why he is not attracted to you. It just means there's no true love between you from him at least. Its not your fault if that is so. Some times we get screwed over form the bad diet eating as youths. Its not what God intended us to be. Flat flabby tubey, odd shaped, or any deformity we developed.
Of course its unattractive and may not satisfy a mate or one's self. We are geneitically predisposed to be balanced and symmetry is beauty. We dont have to be perfect, but we are def able to see what is healthy and beautiful in nature as opposed to not.

Does he have flaws? He can't be perfect. If he has small shoulders or a fat poking belly, or scrawny little bird legs no calves, I would let him know what he needs to work on over the summer. In the mean time, get your health in order and grow your boobs for you! When he sees you, he will be interested, dodge him like a silver bullet and let him know what he will NEVER have.... Chuckles evily...