12-06-2013, 03:03
We're glad to hear that you are doing this for YOU and not just him! As far as attraction goes, is it correct to assume then that the only issue/holdup he is having is with the size of your breasts? That's not so bad...
If you tell him you're working on it, 1) he'll have hope there where he originally was feeling torn, letting him put the issue behind him. When I began working out again, and even now (as my butt is still not big enough for him, lmao big greedy baby!) he was not worried or thinking about it because he knew I was "on my way" to "destination butt" lol. ALSO 2) he'll be so flattered at your willingness to care about his attraction to you. Most men are afraid of getting into relationships with or marrying women because of our stereotypical habit of letting ourselves go once we "have" our men. And physical attraction is very important for men, and I respect that to the degree I see that you respect it. Therefore, men get afraid of us not caring about our appearances, haha. Having a few "must haves" or "must not haves" is healthy and normal for anyone to have when it comes to attraction. I know that I am guilty of this myself.
Just tell him confidently you are working on it, and make it known that it is something YOU want for yourself as well as the added bonus of it pleasing him, but it is something that YOU want (this is important so that he does not think you would do ANYTHING to be with him) and I personally think that that should be enough to solve the problem if he likes everything else about you and really cares for you.
If you tell him you're working on it, 1) he'll have hope there where he originally was feeling torn, letting him put the issue behind him. When I began working out again, and even now (as my butt is still not big enough for him, lmao big greedy baby!) he was not worried or thinking about it because he knew I was "on my way" to "destination butt" lol. ALSO 2) he'll be so flattered at your willingness to care about his attraction to you. Most men are afraid of getting into relationships with or marrying women because of our stereotypical habit of letting ourselves go once we "have" our men. And physical attraction is very important for men, and I respect that to the degree I see that you respect it. Therefore, men get afraid of us not caring about our appearances, haha. Having a few "must haves" or "must not haves" is healthy and normal for anyone to have when it comes to attraction. I know that I am guilty of this myself.
Just tell him confidently you are working on it, and make it known that it is something YOU want for yourself as well as the added bonus of it pleasing him, but it is something that YOU want (this is important so that he does not think you would do ANYTHING to be with him) and I personally think that that should be enough to solve the problem if he likes everything else about you and really cares for you.