08-07-2013, 17:05
(This post was last modified: 08-07-2013, 17:11 by CancerStrikes2.)
I am so sorry to hear that. I have family members & friends went through exactly like your situation. I recently have another friend whom his ex wife cheated on him several times and lied about it and yet he took her back over and over (Koolaid) after she repeatedly asked for divorce (guilt I guess). Finally it was over for him this year (took him 3 yrs to realize that) and now he feels he was a fool for her and in depressing mode as he is now in the 40's with 2 failed marriages.
When someone constantly asks for a divorce it is not worth to stick around. When someone constantly cheat, got caught red hand and yet still denied, it is yet not worth to stick around either. When a man got no job and not looking for a real job, it is not worth to stick around either. When a man refuses to be a man and standing on his own feet to support himself without loosing any dignity (make you work so he can be lazy), then it is not worth to stick around, he will drag you down period.
A person can get an ambitious dream but the reality is he still has to work to earn the living and not live off others period even with his own spouse/family members. He could just work like a barista and use some spare time to work on his other dream goals and that is a man in my book not just live off and pretend to have an ambitious dream. So far I see, he has no respect for you so cut him loose. He is a looser.
Please walk away. I don't want to see you waste your youthful life. My family members stick around for 10 years on men like this (twice) and now she is in her late 40's to bear any kids or too tire to start over again.
Be strong. Be firm. Put yourself, your mentality first (very important). I will be here for you if you need someone to listen to.
-V
When someone constantly asks for a divorce it is not worth to stick around. When someone constantly cheat, got caught red hand and yet still denied, it is yet not worth to stick around either. When a man got no job and not looking for a real job, it is not worth to stick around either. When a man refuses to be a man and standing on his own feet to support himself without loosing any dignity (make you work so he can be lazy), then it is not worth to stick around, he will drag you down period.
A person can get an ambitious dream but the reality is he still has to work to earn the living and not live off others period even with his own spouse/family members. He could just work like a barista and use some spare time to work on his other dream goals and that is a man in my book not just live off and pretend to have an ambitious dream. So far I see, he has no respect for you so cut him loose. He is a looser.
Please walk away. I don't want to see you waste your youthful life. My family members stick around for 10 years on men like this (twice) and now she is in her late 40's to bear any kids or too tire to start over again.
Be strong. Be firm. Put yourself, your mentality first (very important). I will be here for you if you need someone to listen to.
-V