08-07-2013, 18:18
I'm so sorry to hear about this!
And yeah. Totally past time to ditch him. You've given him more opportunities than it sounds like he deserved.
I've never been married... Never even really been on a REAL date. Oh, I tried once or twice to date as a "guy" but my heart just wasn't in it, I was just trying to get my room-mates and family and... off my back. If it seemed like I was trying, then they generally accepted my half-assedness and didn't make things even more awkward.
Anyways, you'll find someone better. I'm sure of it. My brother did when he finally ditched his drug addict leech of a wife.
Unfortunately I also have family who are the worthless scum in their relationships... ah well.
Your relationship troubles need fixin' before you can take care of any of your other concerns. Those have a way of leeching into every other aspect of our lives. And it's sooo definitely better to be single than in a sour relationship.
And yeah. Totally past time to ditch him. You've given him more opportunities than it sounds like he deserved.
I've never been married... Never even really been on a REAL date. Oh, I tried once or twice to date as a "guy" but my heart just wasn't in it, I was just trying to get my room-mates and family and... off my back. If it seemed like I was trying, then they generally accepted my half-assedness and didn't make things even more awkward.
Anyways, you'll find someone better. I'm sure of it. My brother did when he finally ditched his drug addict leech of a wife.
Unfortunately I also have family who are the worthless scum in their relationships... ah well.
Your relationship troubles need fixin' before you can take care of any of your other concerns. Those have a way of leeching into every other aspect of our lives. And it's sooo definitely better to be single than in a sour relationship.