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Im sorry about this. I never went through a divorce but i was once with a guy for over 5 years and had a child with him. It was so hard to get out of it as my family was worried about my daughter and that they dont want her to suffer to have a broken family because of my decision to leave him. But for me, i cant take of him sneaking out anymore, doesnt have a job. I dont want to let my child to grow up seeing him as somebody hurting mommy's feelings and lying and not having a job to support his family. Im scared that my daughter will perceive that there is nothing wrong with that. I am worried about her that when it is time for her to have her own family, she'll think that a guy treating her like that is normal. I realized that i am not gonna be happy for the rest of my life if i'll be with someone who dont even know how to respect me at all. One thing i have learned, never compromise yourself to something less than what you deserve. Marriage is a 2-way road. Even if he chose you and leave the other and promise you that he'll be better, the answer is all up to you. Think, are you gonna be happy in 3, 5, 10 years being with a guy like this? Is it worth it with all the emotional trauma that the marriage is giving you? I hope you find the light and the strength..take care of yourself. (Hugs)