20-02-2010, 21:02
If you have gone through this site as thouroughly as you say, then you know that this site has as much information as it does, partly due to Cheryl and the discussions we all have.
Cheryl is one of the most helpful members we have and has developed better than most of the women have and inspired women to continue when they had wanted to quit.
I think that if you feel the way you do, then maybe this isn't the place for you, but you should know that you are going to find the same thing on any other NBE board you come across. If you do choose to stay, I hope that you will not make any more personal attacks on Cheryl or any other male members on this board. It definately won't endear you to the members or get you any help when you need it.
I have never been offended or upset by anything on this forum before until now, and it wasn't by one of the male members you seem so phobic of, but you.
I just feel sick having seen this type of behavoir directed toward a member that I think is a wonderful person, and Cheryl, I want you to know that I for one am happy you're here and if I had to choose between you or narrowminded thinking women, you would win hands down. Kindness and compassion are much more desired here than hurtful words. I hope you're alright and I'm really so sorry you've had to go through this in the one place that you felt completely safe and supported during the process you're going through. It just makes my heart hurt right now.
Mel
Cheryl is one of the most helpful members we have and has developed better than most of the women have and inspired women to continue when they had wanted to quit.
I think that if you feel the way you do, then maybe this isn't the place for you, but you should know that you are going to find the same thing on any other NBE board you come across. If you do choose to stay, I hope that you will not make any more personal attacks on Cheryl or any other male members on this board. It definately won't endear you to the members or get you any help when you need it.
I have never been offended or upset by anything on this forum before until now, and it wasn't by one of the male members you seem so phobic of, but you.
I just feel sick having seen this type of behavoir directed toward a member that I think is a wonderful person, and Cheryl, I want you to know that I for one am happy you're here and if I had to choose between you or narrowminded thinking women, you would win hands down. Kindness and compassion are much more desired here than hurtful words. I hope you're alright and I'm really so sorry you've had to go through this in the one place that you felt completely safe and supported during the process you're going through. It just makes my heart hurt right now.
Mel