21-02-2010, 07:58
Okay, I am new here. I try to only post when I can help or I have something nice to say. And I try to understand others and give no offense. I was not going to reply to this, but the latest post from Carol decided it for me. Now first off. Cheryl, sweetie. I am so sorry
that someone has come onto the forum and decided to use you. As their focal point to attack a specific group of people here on the site. You do not deserve that. Your journey started with NBE and progressed into something more. You shared that with the folks on this forum and then stayed to help others. So far, I agree with everything that has been posted. The posts have been well written and have put forth several explanations of how this site works. Logical explanations have been given as to why Carols desire, to remove the men from the site. Will not work in the real world. She, instead of giving counter arguments goes once more onto the attack. Everyone has and is entitled to their opinion. Carol expressed hers. We have expressed ours ,Nuff said. Carol does not like men being on the forum. Ok, Folks, Carol does not get it. She probably never will. She does not understand and has said as much. She has no desire to understand, she just wants what she wants. And doesn’t care how she gets it or who she hurts doing it. Look at her post asking for help with NBE. That is not asking. (I am sorry, everyone to cross threads.) She also says that she does not have time. Well that is apparent, based on the post she made.
I could go on all night with the comments Carol has made. And some of you that have received messages from me know this to be true. LOL I love to write. But, I have more important things to do. Then argue with Carol all night.
I think I gotta go cleanout the bathroom drain.
If I thought it would do any good. I would try to explain to her. Why a bio-male like myself, would want to have a more female breasts, and where my journey may be going. Anyone who is interested is free to privately message or e-mail me. I have both on my profile and always welcome mail and questions. But Carol ,as I have said, is not interested in taking the time to understand her fellow human beings, this site or the people on it. And that is fine for her, I wish her well in life.
As for me I have put enough time and energy into this post and issue. Anyway Carol is free to write anything she wants. It is a free site, I don’t have to read anything anyone posts ,or reply to them. If I don’t want to. As for all of you, well that is your decision to make.
Oh, and Carol, one of the reasons people feel “safe” on this site. Is because we can talk about NBE even if we are men, transitioning men, cd’s, women or other. And not have someone judging us, condemning us, or saying “we need help”. We pass along information and try to support one another in their goals for NBE. Whatever their reasons may be. ( If you had studied this site, as you said you did, you would know this.) We answer questions, give advice, and give each other a place to vent their frustrations with NBE. I did need help. I needed information to help me get started on my journey. This site and all of the lovely people in it ,past and present, have helped me to get started in a much more informed way.
Huff--Huff--I told you I like to write and I apologize again for the long post.
andy
"I never look back, darling. it distracts from the now." Edna Mode
Sorry again, off topic.
P.S. I am a “real” man. I have the Rodeo awards, the boy scout badges, the guns and shooting certificates to prove it. I help raise funds for Saint Jude’s children’s hospital and the Children’s Miracle Network here in the US. Just because I do not fit into your
definition of a “real man” does not mean I am not one.
that someone has come onto the forum and decided to use you. As their focal point to attack a specific group of people here on the site. You do not deserve that. Your journey started with NBE and progressed into something more. You shared that with the folks on this forum and then stayed to help others. So far, I agree with everything that has been posted. The posts have been well written and have put forth several explanations of how this site works. Logical explanations have been given as to why Carols desire, to remove the men from the site. Will not work in the real world. She, instead of giving counter arguments goes once more onto the attack. Everyone has and is entitled to their opinion. Carol expressed hers. We have expressed ours ,Nuff said. Carol does not like men being on the forum. Ok, Folks, Carol does not get it. She probably never will. She does not understand and has said as much. She has no desire to understand, she just wants what she wants. And doesn’t care how she gets it or who she hurts doing it. Look at her post asking for help with NBE. That is not asking. (I am sorry, everyone to cross threads.) She also says that she does not have time. Well that is apparent, based on the post she made.
I could go on all night with the comments Carol has made. And some of you that have received messages from me know this to be true. LOL I love to write. But, I have more important things to do. Then argue with Carol all night.
I think I gotta go cleanout the bathroom drain.
If I thought it would do any good. I would try to explain to her. Why a bio-male like myself, would want to have a more female breasts, and where my journey may be going. Anyone who is interested is free to privately message or e-mail me. I have both on my profile and always welcome mail and questions. But Carol ,as I have said, is not interested in taking the time to understand her fellow human beings, this site or the people on it. And that is fine for her, I wish her well in life.
As for me I have put enough time and energy into this post and issue. Anyway Carol is free to write anything she wants. It is a free site, I don’t have to read anything anyone posts ,or reply to them. If I don’t want to. As for all of you, well that is your decision to make.
Oh, and Carol, one of the reasons people feel “safe” on this site. Is because we can talk about NBE even if we are men, transitioning men, cd’s, women or other. And not have someone judging us, condemning us, or saying “we need help”. We pass along information and try to support one another in their goals for NBE. Whatever their reasons may be. ( If you had studied this site, as you said you did, you would know this.) We answer questions, give advice, and give each other a place to vent their frustrations with NBE. I did need help. I needed information to help me get started on my journey. This site and all of the lovely people in it ,past and present, have helped me to get started in a much more informed way.
Huff--Huff--I told you I like to write and I apologize again for the long post.
andy
"I never look back, darling. it distracts from the now." Edna Mode
Sorry again, off topic.
P.S. I am a “real” man. I have the Rodeo awards, the boy scout badges, the guns and shooting certificates to prove it. I help raise funds for Saint Jude’s children’s hospital and the Children’s Miracle Network here in the US. Just because I do not fit into your
definition of a “real man” does not mean I am not one.