[BonitaDDs]

Yes massage sounds like its working well for you keep at it though it normally takes time.
You can change nipple shape with a niplette or supple nipps they make they give more nipple definition so make the areolas smaller and the nipple bigger I tried the niplette for a short time the plus is you can wear under clothes or to bed so its faster results and it really worked now even when they are soft the nipples never completely flat so they look more proportioned.
Its worth a good try if your considering surgery I think the results could be better as your the one whos in control of shaping them especially with the nipple supps as they come in different sizes.