02-10-2013, 18:12
(This post was last modified: 02-10-2013, 18:17 by TibetanPrincess.)
I agree with Miss, maybe you should bring up an article you "came across" and see how she reacts to that idea.
But don't let it keep you from treadin forward with telling her if its not so rosy on her end. No doubt you've fought it all these years, but its time to move on.
Oh yes, its very scary. But you must do it, you'll never be happy. Remember, its you at the end of the day, you shouldn't have to live like that. If its truly who you are and you are comfortable with it.
Have you not told her for you or for her?
As in: if you are feeling confused and don't know what you want for yourself, than I am sorry for you. That is a tough predicky to find yourself in. I understand if that is the main reason why you haven't told her all these years, rather than just the fear of hurting her.
But don't let it keep you from treadin forward with telling her if its not so rosy on her end. No doubt you've fought it all these years, but its time to move on.
Oh yes, its very scary. But you must do it, you'll never be happy. Remember, its you at the end of the day, you shouldn't have to live like that. If its truly who you are and you are comfortable with it.
Have you not told her for you or for her?
As in: if you are feeling confused and don't know what you want for yourself, than I am sorry for you. That is a tough predicky to find yourself in. I understand if that is the main reason why you haven't told her all these years, rather than just the fear of hurting her.