27-02-2010, 17:25
Congrats. on moving forward Cheryl i your journey. Don't worry about posting here. If anyone doesn’t like it they don't have to respond and can move on. We do support you here. As a bio-male there is not a lot for me to say on topic. I would suggest that you ask one of your
sisters or mother for advice. From a male perspective I would say that you need to dress comfortably. You will be in a new situation. While you will be worried about how you look and act. He will be too by the way. You don't need the added distraction of uncomfortable clothes. I am not saying don't dress for success but be relaxed as much is as possible. I would say casual, though the ladies on this forum might
disagree and please do so if I am wrong. That your gentleman caller wants to date is a good sign. And don't worry about looking foolish. What you think of as something "stupid or embarrassing that I did" he will probably find cute or endearing. If not, then it was not meant to be, but try to have a good time anyway.. Ok folks, I am going to get in even
deeper on this one. Even if it turns out that you two are not ,romantically inclined, perhaps you can just be friends. It is nice to have someone you like to go out with. From time to time to talk and hang out.
andy
sisters or mother for advice. From a male perspective I would say that you need to dress comfortably. You will be in a new situation. While you will be worried about how you look and act. He will be too by the way. You don't need the added distraction of uncomfortable clothes. I am not saying don't dress for success but be relaxed as much is as possible. I would say casual, though the ladies on this forum might
disagree and please do so if I am wrong. That your gentleman caller wants to date is a good sign. And don't worry about looking foolish. What you think of as something "stupid or embarrassing that I did" he will probably find cute or endearing. If not, then it was not meant to be, but try to have a good time anyway.. Ok folks, I am going to get in even
deeper on this one. Even if it turns out that you two are not ,romantically inclined, perhaps you can just be friends. It is nice to have someone you like to go out with. From time to time to talk and hang out.
andy