16-10-2013, 06:10
(16-10-2013, 01:09)jmarie73 Wrote: Senio12-
When it comes to men I am pretty cut and dry, and frankly, this has helped me immensely.
When other women are searching desperately between the lines (I did that only once in my life, I have been there...tortuous and a waste of time) I see the bottom line.
You do not need to waste time on a boy who is not sure if he is attracted to you. I don't even need to see you to know plenty of men will find you desirable and beautiful.
There are tons of men, you are young, and you can leave this one behind and not look back.
Wish him the best, and don't look back.
All the best -
jmarie.
Not sure if you noticed, but she REALLY likes this guy because of a long friendship relationship they've had. That is really a unique situation, honestly, and if just a little hiccup like this (about her breasts) exists, she does not need to be so "cut and dry." Being "cut and dry" and eliminating anyone with the slightest issue in a relationship is NOT a luxury of being a woman whom plenty of men will find desirable and beautiful; rather, it IS a luxury of being a woman who is not very selective or picky. Trust me, as there are those of us who have PLENTY of interest shown towards us but, if we don't feel it for them, then that's it. And we don't "feel it" for most of them. Trust, I have only "felt it" for a whopping total of 2 men in the past 5 years. So wow, I guess being a girl who many find desirable and beautiful will really serve me well then, huh? Um, not really. I don't settle for a man with whom I do not feel chemistry. So sometimes, when a woman finds something that really makes her heart sing when hardly anyone else has been able to do this for her, you bet that a small hiccup of his honesty (which is a GOOD thing, btw) is not going to get in the way of things for her.
Plus if you noticed she only made 3 posts and has not been on since June when she joined. I am pretty sure she came on BN just to post this question and leave... but thanks for your input anyway! Lucky for you that you have the flexibility to be cut and dry! Those of us less fortunate would miss out on our only opportunities to love if we were to take up the art of being cut and dry
