[Shortcakekate]

Wow. Reading this discussion has really reminded me how other's opinions have waaaay too much of an affect on what we want in our own bodies. Men, I wish you had a single clue on how your words affect us.. esp in a relationship setting. Why not accept her for her size and stop lusting after something that doesn't make a woman any more womanly than an A cup does?! How about restore her confidence and help her to feel beautiful for what she is NOW? Wow. This is disgusting.

Find the beauty in what she is and let that be enough for you. If she personally wants to change for her OWN reasons, then let her.