21-11-2013, 09:46
Yeah, no, I don't think we jumped the gun on this. I have known guys along these lines and the girls did suffer from extremely low self-esteem, otherwise, who the hell would put up with that? The guys too said they would "help" their gfs by buying them implants. Funny thing is the girls never had these complexes before them and didn't even want implants until it was suggested! But us silly girls always want to make our men happy so we change ourselves for them. It happens all the time. It takes a female to explain this. Men can only try to understand the emotional complexity of a female's brain. We are wired quite differently from you.
A boyfriend's duty should be to assure his gf that she is beautiful the way she is (unless you've let yourself go, ie: gained a ton of weight because that is not out of your hands). Don't get with her otherwise! There are plenty of guys out there that would cherish her small breasts and believe it or not, detest large ones!
The breasts you are born with "technically" are out of your hands unless you get surgery or grow them. Yes, this is "natural" breast growing we're doing but there's really not too much that's natural about it. We are all going to crazy, obsessive and time-consuming lengths to get them to grow. A breast pump!? WTF. Hormones that are probably greatly increasing our risks of breast cancer? NOT that natural.
I will speak out about the issue in America right now. Look at our females: anorexic girls with breast implants and women with ungodly amounts of plastic surgery. This is the result of what the media and shallow men have conditioned into our brains as the ideal beauty. It oftentimes doesn't translate the same as it does in the magazines and instead looks like a freak show sadly. And none of us are above it on here (for the most part). Even if only a modest amount, we too are sucked into unrealistic expectations of what defines beauty. To avoid being left for another female? To not be made fun of? To not feel inferior to other females? Variety is the spice of life, but not if you're an A cup it seems.
I know I'm on a sick one, but I am speaking out against all the guys who emotionally damage their women. Sugar-coating your motives as "helping" is not cute.
A boyfriend's duty should be to assure his gf that she is beautiful the way she is (unless you've let yourself go, ie: gained a ton of weight because that is not out of your hands). Don't get with her otherwise! There are plenty of guys out there that would cherish her small breasts and believe it or not, detest large ones!
The breasts you are born with "technically" are out of your hands unless you get surgery or grow them. Yes, this is "natural" breast growing we're doing but there's really not too much that's natural about it. We are all going to crazy, obsessive and time-consuming lengths to get them to grow. A breast pump!? WTF. Hormones that are probably greatly increasing our risks of breast cancer? NOT that natural.
I will speak out about the issue in America right now. Look at our females: anorexic girls with breast implants and women with ungodly amounts of plastic surgery. This is the result of what the media and shallow men have conditioned into our brains as the ideal beauty. It oftentimes doesn't translate the same as it does in the magazines and instead looks like a freak show sadly. And none of us are above it on here (for the most part). Even if only a modest amount, we too are sucked into unrealistic expectations of what defines beauty. To avoid being left for another female? To not be made fun of? To not feel inferior to other females? Variety is the spice of life, but not if you're an A cup it seems.
I know I'm on a sick one, but I am speaking out against all the guys who emotionally damage their women. Sugar-coating your motives as "helping" is not cute.